How to Cold-Approach Beautiful Women
1. Never be scared or ashamed to approach a girl.
Understand that you approaching her was probably the most interesting thing that happened to her that day.
She will probably tell her friends after that.
2. Mindset Shift:
When meeting women, most men's frame is:
“I hope she finds me attractive“
" I hope she likes me"
Yours should be:
“I hope I find her attractive”
"I hope that's a girl I might get to like"
Be the buyer, not the seller.
You're not there to sell yourself.
3. DO'S
- Look her in the eye
- Approach from the front
- Have a smile
- Non-Neediness
- Give her a time constraint like " Hey, I'm in a hurry, but I just..."
4. DON'TS
- Creepy, unsure movements
- Fast, Jerky reactions
- Never approach her from behind
- Don't be in her face
- Seeking rapport tonality
(Which sounds like "please talk to me")
5. Some openers:
"Hey, I know it's random but I just wanted to say Hi to you, you looked interesting."
“Hey, are you *Country*?” With a curious tonality. Cold reads are great.
"Hey, do you speak English?". (Works well when travelling.)
6. OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE
- You genuinely wish her well.
- Whatever she says, does not change your reality.
- You are expressing your best self, NOT impressing.
7. WORST-CASE SCENARIO:
- It was the most interesting thing that happened to her that day.
- She is going to think about it for days after.
- She is going to tell all her friends.
IN MOST CASES:
She is receptive, you two have good chemistry, and you both plan a date.
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