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    SUNDAY SPECIAL: Is a Wife right to deny her Husband sex?

    Many people live in marriages where sex is rare or non-existent.
    Often, it is the women who refuse to have intercourse with their
    husbands at some point or Age. Both Christianity and Islam prohibit
    illicit sexual relations, premarital sex, fornication, adultery and
    It is for this reason that a wife is BOUND by the Scriptures and
    Society to satisfy the husband's sexual desires and vice versa to
    prevent extra marital affairs. In Quran 2:187, Allah says "They (your
    wives) are your garments and you are also their garments".

    In Corinthians 7: 3-4, it is said "The husband should give to his wife
    her conjugal rights and likewise the wife to the husband. The wife has
    no authority over her own body but the husband has and vice versa".
    Prophet Muhammad said "If a husband calls his wife to his bed and she
    refuses without CONVINCING reasons (except for illness and
    menstruation) and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse
    her till morning.

    Further, Allah is displeased with her until her husband is pleased
    with her". The scriptures say "no refusal "to marital sex unless
    MUTUALLY agreed and that whoever refuses is sinning and incurs the
    wrath of God. The Prophet said that there is reward in marital sex and
    that each act earns the couple a reward equivalent to the performance
    of 70 nawafil (voluntary) prayers. Sex is natural and central in
    marriage and its absence causes rancour in the marriage.

    In extreme cases, some women have been killed for denying their
    husbands sex. Marriages can be legally annulled where marital
    intercourse is rare or unavailable. If married couples are committed
    to the sacred institution of marriage, it is their duty,
    responsibility and interest to fully cooperate in matters of sexual
    intercourse for peace and happiness to prevail in marital homes.

    Couples who fear the chastisement of the Lord, should mutually strive
    at all times to satisfy each other sexually. A Husband should work to
    prepare his wife psychologically and physically with love, romance and
    interest to submit happily to his sexual advances. May Allah touch the
    hearts and minds of wives to go the Extra mile to always be there to
    satisfy the sexual desires of their husbands.

    May we continue to walk in the ways of the Lord.

    WRITTEN By A. Adams

    Bigi Benson,
    Contact: +233579090453

    1 comment:

    1. Hell No .. Its never a wife's right


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